I am a 21-year-old Dutch guy, who’s studying in university. I can dream endlessly about traveling to faraway countries, but have somewhat limited possibilities of fulfilling this dream, as I’d probably have to sell a kidney to get the money together. I’m shy around people I haven’t met before, hate being the center of attention and prefer meeting friends to watch a game of football over partying until I can’t tell my arse from my elbow. I like doing sports and being outdoors in general and love taking hour-long walks. I prefer winter over summer, trains over airplanes and coffee over tea. I am shy but curious, insecure but honest and I’m a straight guy but like to wear women’s clothing.
Did you notice how the part about me being a crossdresser comes last? I hope so, because there’s some reasoning behind that. As most crossdressers will probably agree, being someone who likes to dress as the opposite sex is a pretty big deal, even in today’s society. Over the years, I learned that if you let it be a big deal yourself, it sort of starts to get a life of its own and it won’t take long before it takes over your life completely. I like to think of my personality as being a puzzle and of crossdressing as being one of the numerous pieces you need to complete the puzzle. If you take away the piece (i.e. crossdressing), the puzzle (my personality) won’t be complete. However, if you look at the complete puzzle, you’ll find that it covers so much more than just the crossdressing.